111: “I’m in a relationship. Why should I self pleasure?”

I never self pleasured until I was in my mid-twenties (better late than never!)

I was so naive and clueless that I didn’t know women even did that.

Plus, I got into my first long term relationship when I was 18 years old - and got married when I was 20.

Because my first sexual experiences were wired with a partner, I couldn’t figure out how to orgasm on my own for years.

It took being married and divorced twice before I stopped making men responsible for my pleasure and stopped manifesting co-dependent relationships.

That was a huge win for someone who constantly gave my power and sovereignty away in relationships.

So if you’re in a long-term relationship and wondering why you should self pleasure, tune into today’s episode about why this is SO IMPORTANT!

Stream from the web here:

Or subscribe and listen on:




Lots of love,


p.s. Have you checked out the new website yet? Because of Facebook and Instagram censoring, we have to change the name and website. Can you believe it?



©2020 by The Multiorgasmic Mama - Tilly Storm.